Saturday, March 31, 2012

Friends- give friends- a hand!

Well, at least that's what the Fresh Beat Band sings about! And what a night we had in the beginning of March-going to see the Fresh Beat Band LIVE- on stage!!!

It was good we (Keifer and I) even made it there, as we both had the FLU BUG (aka vomit bug) earlier in the week. I had it Tuesday and Wednesday, Keifer had it Wednesday, and Kyla had it late Wed/early Thursday night. CJ had stayed home with Kyla that Thursday, and she "seemed" OK to go. Oops. Not really. She vomited on the way to pick sissy up at school-so we frantically played "WHO CAN GO TO THE SHOW WITH US?" games until the last minute - and being it was a 5PM concert, that was pretty tricky (stressful, in my opinion!)

Luckily, our new and dear neighbor friends made it at the last second and K1 was able to rock out to the band with her buddy, A. from across the yard.

Keifer, having her sensory issues, of course, acted like she wasn't too into the band and didn't want me to TOUCH HER, as she was taking all the sensations in (and I admit, I enjoyed the show myself!). However, in the car on the ride home, her and A. giggled in the back seat about how that was the best show they'd ever seen!

Here are some VIDEO CLIPS of our concert experience


Friday, March 30, 2012

Are you taking your vitamins?


I know you are probably making sure your KIDS are taking them, right? So why do we make sure our KIDS are eating healthy and safe, but we don't take better care of OURSELVES - unless, of course, it's "too late" or "we're older" or "something is wrong"?

I decided I needed to make sure the vitamins I was ingesting each and every day were effective and proven to work! And Now I've got my CJ on his Vitalizer and the girls on THEIR vitamins! Makes me a happier Mama, knowing we are building our immune systems!

And did you know the Shaklee cooperation is the one who invented the multi-vitamin? Yep, so why argue with their SCIENCE and research behind what they make? They have over 90+ clinical studies of effectiveness AND they also put all of their products through rigorous standard testing, to make sure it's safe and effective.

If you are feeling like you need to make YOUR health more of a priority, or your families, make sure you contact me, OK? I'm a hard-working mama just like most of you :)

Shaklee Corporation: Providing a healthier life for everyone and a better life for anyone. Health, Wellness, Nature, Opportunity

Excited!!

Not only is April 10 our K1's 5th Birthday, it's also the return of our beloved Glee- and here's a sneak peek of it that has me SQUEALING like a little girl- HOT HOT HOT Matt Bomer, HOT HOT HOT Darren Criss, and they are taking on a current favorite song of ours:


EEK!
Cannot wait!

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Magnolia- the tree

We have been so blessed the past few weeks, in March, to be breaking records for the weather. It has been in the 70's and 80's here in MN, and we are not used to this. Even the trees and flowers are confused, and this past week, our Magnolia tree in our front yard has bloomed! This past Friday, after work, the girls wanted to investigate the tree a little further.......

Her great masterpiece

Kyla is an interesting little girl. She loves to play and set things up and talk about imaginary happenings. Sunday, she decided she was going to set all these things out - what it represents, I have no idea. But I do know she worked pretty hard on it, and really confused the dogs. LOL. As you see in the first picture, this is their door to the back yard, and when this was covered in other items, it was a bit much for them.
Bravo, K2, for the most interesting set-up I've seen in quite some time!

I will also add, as an exciting tid-bit, she insisted upon wearing a pair of orange shorts under those cute jeans she is modeling. Yep, that's my crazy K2!

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Give Away TIME!


If you are like me, you're all over FREE STUFF, right?

Well, in honor of me starting to sell Shaklee products, go on over to my friend's blog, Tutus and Tantrums, and get in on a Giveaway of my favorite Cleaner of all time: Basic H. (along with spray bottles!)

And make sure when you read her blog, you see that IF YOU GO to my Facebook page and like it, you'll be in the running for a free Hydrating Moisturizer as well! The 100th "LIKE" I receive wins!

Go on: GET OVER THERE and COMMENT & LIKE!


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CONGRATULATIONS to a WINNER on Katie's Blog!



Keifer and I are, as always, on our Glee kick. I've been somewhat disappointed by the episodes this year, with the exception of a few of them. One of the major subplots was the character of Santana, going through trying times with her coming out as a lesbian. Of course, Keifer has no idea what is being talked about, but it's interesting to hear her comments on some of the things that happen: case in point after this performance, when Santana goes up to Finn and slaps his face.


However, as always in TV Land, the Glee group makes up and sing this song: We Are Young by the group FUN.:


Now, I will tell you, I loved this song the minute I heard it. I immediately looked up who sang it and how to get my hands on it. I ended up downloading the original version, but I actually prefer the Glee cast's version. We are some of the thousands of people who enjoy listening to their songs and soundtracks as we drive along. Keifer loves it, I love it...what more can I ask for.

On another note, though, I downloaded the song the weekend that a very good childhood friend passed away. My buddy Ryan and I had been friends since I can't even remember, having gone to Elementary school and on together *up through college as well*. He was my first REAL boyfriend: the one you have a crush on and he likes you back. We were in 5th grade, and it was the most memorable year of my young life. It was the year strong friendships were born, and many memories of becoming WHO I AM as a person are lodged in the memories of that year.
Ryan and I used to joke, as we aged, that were were each others' "5th grade lover" and we had inside lingo and a funny little "dance" that we did that made no sense to anyone but us. The infamous "Johnny" dance was what we called it, having gotten the cue from the movie Short Circuit, who had Number 5 in it ("Number 5 is alive") and the song Who's Johnny by El DeBarge (tell me that doesn't take some of you back!). Ahh, the memories.

So when Ryan died, I was in a state of total shock. Lots to say about that, but I'll spare you. I drove up alone for the night, to attend his funeral on President's Day Monday. The song We Are Young had recently been uploaded to my IPod, and as I was flipping around songs, it popped up. The minute the chorus started in, I thought of Ryan, and the tears just poured. The part of the song about "when the bar closes and you feel like falling down, I'll carry you home"....well, being young and kids, Ryan and I used to have drinks at parties together (yes, we did). And on one occasion, I went out with Ryan and another friend of ours during finals week at college, and I ended up having one too many Long Island Teas (oh, how I used to love Grandma's Saloon's teas). The night had started out with a few beers watching comedy, and then moved on to Teas. Oh boy. I ended up vomiting on the rocks near the Lake front (Lake Superior), but Ryan and our other friend took care of me, and ended up driving my car home and making sure I was safe at home that night. It may not have meant alot at the time, to any of us, but looking back, it did. Stupid things we did, they WERE stupid, but I look back and I treasure the little things that we had together. Fun nights out, inside jokes, and so forth.
When Ryan died, I hadn't seen him in I can't remember how long. But his funeral DID bring together SO MANY people, and we all had a chance to reconnect. I had the pleasure of spending most of that day with my bestest friend ever in the world-whom is like my sister, Jess. Jess and I became best friends in that 5th grade class that I wrote of, so it was especially nice to have her sitting and holding my arm as we cried together, saying goodbye to our Ryan. Our Uncle "Ry Ry".

Now and then, I hear this song We Are Young on the radio, I immediately choke up, and know that Ryan is watching out over his friends and laughing at us. I hope he is, because then I know I have an angel watching over me. RIP, Ryan.

Monday, March 19, 2012

All about my New Business Endeavor

You're probably (maybe?) noticed or heard, if you know me, that I've recently become a Distributor of Shaklee products. It may or may not come as a surprise, but I will tell you: I am SO excited to be a spokesperson for this company- which started out 56+ years ago (and where the first Multi-Vitamin came from!)

WHY I got into selling for Shaklee:

You're all probably like "WTHECK is this that she got herself into???" and "WHAT IS A SHAKLEE??" I'll tell you a little about
MY WHY and what it is. And, how impressed I have been in the year I started buying from them.

My 4 year old Keifer was diagnosed with Sensory Integration "Issues" a few years back (as my story of her is a few posts below); life is challenging to say the least (as many of you know and hear about often- HA). She is highly sensitive to smells and sounds, and although she tested NEGATIVE for allergies through a blood test, I know she is sensitive to foods and products (shampoos, etc) we use. She was also diagnosed as "pre-asthmatic" and does a daily inhaler of Flo-Vent to prevent asthma attacks. She typically goes through the winter having breathing issues.

Another friend of mine showed me clinical research studies done by by a company called Shaklee, whom she is a Director for. Shaklee has been around for 56+ years and was recently bought by Roger Barnett for the reason of his child: his child has asthma and they had to find new products to use inside their home for their son. Products that were safe.

Did you know that 72% of children in the ER are there because of household cleaning products (Parenting magazine). Shaklee's Basic H is equal to 5824 bottles of 26oz Windex. It also has over 100 other uses. (degreaser, wood, marble, granite, stove tops, remove bugs from cars, removes sticky residue like gum from hair, breaks down wax to remove lipstick from carpet and much more).

I started using the Basic H, and I swear to you, Keifer's "tantrums" (if you will) and moods have been better. She is no longer throwing herself on the floor every night, and I haven't seen her nose drip (knock on wood) since I don't remember when. I MYSELF have recently used Basic H on potty training accidents, VOMIT, dog dirt, etc...this cleaning line is non-toxic and safe for your home, children, and pets. I adore the Scour-Off heavy duty cleaner. It even smells to me like bubble gum. I love seeing the SHINE after I use it on my bathtubs and kitchen sink, and I know that it (again, yes yes yes) is SAFE. I can now let my girls help me clean the house, and guess what? They are using their hands to "get into" the cleaning products, and Keifer isn't wheezing or using her nebulizer and her nose isn't running. She isn't reacting at.all.

Your skin is also your largest organ and when you wash your clothes in detergent, toxins are soaking into your skin. You have clothes on all day and you sleep in your sheets that have those toxins also. You breathe them in while sleeping and those toxins break down your immune systems and can create other health challenges.

I switched the the Laundry detergent for HE machines and feel SO much better knowing my girls skin and lungs are safe. Keifer had ZERO eczema episodes this winter, along with ZERO need for her nebulizers.

The What?:
My favorite Products include the Get Clean Products: Basic H, the Laundry Detergent, as well as the Joint Health Complex .

I started taking the Joint Health a year ago for my bad knee- and I didn't know if it was working or not when my friend followed up with me. Then I stopped taking it. And I realized it IS working. It doesn't contain Chondroitrin, which many people believe is GOOD for your joints, but really, doesn't get absorbed by your body and could potentially be toxic because it has long term side effects on liver & kidneys.... and the Joint Health by Shaklee does in 5 days what glucosomine & chondroitrin take 4-8weeks to do. And I have noticed that the arthritis that is developing in my fingers isn't flaring up, if at all.

As for Vitamins- yeah, I take a lot of vitamins. Usually from Target. I take a multi-vitamin, Fish oils, etc..Its cheaper at Sam's and I could buy in bulk. And my husband doesn't like to spend a lot of $$. ANd I don't HAVE a lot of $$. However, Shaklee has zero tolerance for toxins,:they prove that what is in bottle, is on label, & in bloodstream after taking it.
FDA doesn't regulate supplements & many don't break down in the body, meaning they have "fillers". Its the #1 cause for clogged Port o potties (kind of gross) but true.

And oh yeah, there are hundreds of CLINICAL RESEARCH studies on Shaklee products. Pages to read. They have a headquarters where Scientists actually do testing of all their products. AND there is a 100% money back if you aren't happy with anything. Even if the bottle is empty!

Shaklee also has a 20yr landmark study... people that took Shaklee supplements for 20yrs, people that took nothing for 20yrs & people that took other supplements. The study was done by University of Berkley and people on Shaklee had highest healthmarkers & people on nothing had better healthmarkers than those who took other stuff.

I decided spending the $$ on GOOD vitamins instead of getting SICK and spending $ at a doctor might be better worth the $ spent. So when I joined to sell Shaklee, I got a 1 month supply of
Vitalizer for Women.

It has everything your body needs for one full day of nutrition + a probiotic. The pics of all the essential vitamins and minerals that are IN the strip of vitamins show A LOT of food that would have to be eaten. But I get it in one strip.

Is is a little more $ to spend? HELL Yes.

However, I did a "test". I've been taking the vitamins for almost a month and I have seen/felt a difference- I haven't felt like I needed to nap at 1PM after lunch and I have been staying up until almost 11 every night! I forgot to take them one day in the morning and I almost fell asleep in my PM class that day! So I honestly do think THEY are working, too. To me, knowing my body is benefitting from the vitamins and minerals and potentially saving money at the future doctor visits is totally worth the cost.

For my girls:
The
Incredivites for Children has Lactoferon (kid dose of Nutriferon) an immune booster that was proven by Cornell Univ. to fight off the flu. It also helps kids with auto immune disorders, along with other health challenges and keeps healthy kids healthy! It isn't loaded w/ sugar and is proven to have in the bottle & bloodstream what is on the label. To me and my girls, they are easy and tasty to eat and the girls are so excited to take their "healthy" vitamins! And I feel so much better, knowing they are getting all they should when food just isn't going to do it all in one day.

If people take vitamins at all, they should take the ones that are proven to be what they say they are. Shaklee proves it. :)

Once I get started, I could go ON and ON about the products- I haven't even touched on the all-natural beauty line- with moisturizers and a "natural Botox" (that has people telling me I look more refreshed lately! Ha!), or the Cinch line of weight loss products.

If you feel like asking me any questions, check out my web page link on the side -->
or feel free to email me and we can chat via phone. I hope you are as excited to try some of these amazing products and become a convert as much as I am!

Now watch this video and see what you think:

FYI- Stay away, Predators!

I have a live feed-it log on the side of my blog ------------>

Occasionally I look on it to see what types of things are drawing people to my blog.

Apparently there are some sickos out there- because I have search words such as "cute little butt" and "nude girls" and many different versions of things with the words "nude" in them. I had 1 picture of Kyla (no showing the bum) but without clothes reading, and I took that off. Seriously - whomever finds babies with no clothes on appealing (other than cute) is a sicko.

Stay away, predators - and watch what YOU post on your blog- its so sad to know that my innocent girls are being watched for other people's sick pleasure :(


She's so SENSORY -Part 1

So, in the past, I've often made comments about Keifer receiving Occupational Therapy for her "sensory" issues. This was a huge part (and still is) of our lives! When she was a baby/toddler, we always commented on how dramatic Keifer was during every situation we were in. Looking back, that drama now makes sense- she was interpreting her world differently than we were through her SENSES, and hopefully- reading the information below will help you understand a little more about what WE have been living. It might also trigger some "aha" moments in your own children, as most kids seem to have SOMETHING that is "sensory" about them.
Also, to add, I'm an Early Childhood Special Education teacher, so by identifying this is my OWN CHILD, it's been helpful for parents to relate with me and for me to RELATE TO OTHER PARENTS, as we have our daily struggles at home with Keifer.

We did receive outside OT services for Sensory Integration (and her funky pencil grasp) for 1 full year. She was discontinued for meeting her goals after one year. It's not that we don't have work to do with her. I'll talk about it more in my next post - the ones with Pictures! :)

Sensory processing disorder
is usually recognized in early childhood or adolescence but may be seen throughout the lifespan. These children do not “outgrow” the problem. Difficulties continue into adulthood, although sometimes severity of symptoms may become less apparent as the child learns managing techniques.
Children with sensory processing disorder have difficulty with:
• Managing anxiety
• Handling high stress situations
• Dealing with frustration
• Staying on tasks to finishing point
• Effectively using fine and gross motor skills

When comparing children’s sensory processing problems with coping abilities, the sensory processing problems were mostly related to the child’s difficulty with their ability to:
• Handle new situations
• Change plans / transition
• Appropriately learn new situations
• Understand independence and dependence
• Use self-defense successfully
• Have an proper activity level
• Control impulses

Sensory processing disorder is often associated with other diagnoses such as:
• Pervasive developmental disorder/ autism spectrum
• Learning disabilities/ attention deficit disorder
• Language disorders
• Behavioral disorders
• Anxiety disorder/ depression

Children with sensory processing disorder may display the following behaviors:
• May not like messy things or getting dirty
• May not like to be touched, hugged or cuddled • Likes to touch objects and people to the point of becoming annoying
• May frequently put things in his/her mouth
• Refuses to brushing teeth
• May gag during tooth brushing

Sensory seeking children appear to desire touch because they need sensation that is intense, frequent and/or of long interval. Touch systems around the head and face may contribute to over-sensitive to touch, leading to poor tolerance of anything around the mouth.

Sensory Under-Sensitivity: Children with under sensitivity do not respond to and may seem uninterested or unresponsive to sensory experiences.

These children may exhibit the following traits:
• The child seems weak, slumps, and leans on people or furniture.
• The child has low energy and has a hard time waking up.
• The child gets tired easily, lies around and appears to have little motivation to walk around.
• The child does things very slowly.
• The child seems depressed or neutral.

Sensory Over-Sensitivity: Children with over sensitivity respond to sensations from just one sensory system faster, with more intensity or for a longer period than typical peers.
• The child responds negatively or emotionally to loud people or places.
• The child has trouble concentrating in noisy environments
• The child frequently hums or makes other strange noises.

Some children who are overwhelmed by their environment over-react to sounds or even ‘shut them out’ so that it seems like they are not hearing, while other kids make sounds to block the noises in their environment. These children are sensory seeking and seem to have a craving for strong levels of sensation. Children with over-sensitivity may become uncomfortable with changes to new situations.

Sensory Modulation Disorder: This sensory processing disorder causes problems with modifying responses to sensory inputs resulting in withdrawal or strong negative responses to sensations that do not usually bother typical peers. Problems are often seen in irregular emotions that are made worse by stress, and vary with the situation.
Signs of Sensory Modulation Disorder
• Easily distracted by sounds
• Extremely sensitive to sounds
• Difficulty with falling or staying asleep
• Reacts defensively to being touched lightly or unexpectedly
• Easily distracted by visual stimuli
• Overly active
• Outbursts of anger

Sensory Discrimination Disorder Children with sensory discrimination disorder have trouble in recognizing and interpreting differences or similarities in the nature of stimuli. It is commonly seen with problems in processing sensations from touch, muscles, joints and head movements (vestibular or inner ear sensations).

Signs of Sensory Discrimination Disorder
• The child hits or pushes other people
• The child grips objects too tightly or uses too much strength
• The child frequently drops things or knocks things over
• The child mouths, licks, chews, or sucks on non-food items
• The child craves movement, such as spinning or jumping around
• The child is afraid of heights/ swings or slides
• The child has poor balance

Postural-Ocular Disorder: Postural-Ocular Disorder is a problem with control of posture or quality of movements seen in low muscle tone or joint instability and/or poor functional use of vision. These children have difficulty stabilizing the body while resting/moving and trouble with using both sides of the body together. This disorder is often seen with vestibular (the inner ear) problems.

Signs of Postural-Ocular Disorder
• The child seems weaker than other children
• The child wears out easily
The child often moves around repeatedly
• The child slumps while sitting
• The child has difficulty making eye contact/ following with the eyes, such as reading
• The child seems clumsy he/she may fall and tumble frequently
• The child may seek mItalicovements of swinging or spinning

Dyspraxia: Children with dyspraxia have trouble with planning, sequencing & executing unfamiliar actions resulting in awkward & poorly coordinated motor skills typically seen with a sensory processing deficit. It is usually seen with difficulty doing new activities or those that are done infrequently.

Children with dyspraxia may be slow at learning a new sequence of movement. Children who have dyspraxia have difficulty figuring out what movement they need to make, planning how to move and accomplishing a plan. They need to be given more time between transitions.

Signs of Dyspraxia
• Difficulty following multi-step directions
• Strong desire for sameness or routines
• Has an awkward pencil grasp
• Has poor handwriting
• Dislikes or hesitant to participate in sports
• Easily frustrated
• Problems with daily life skills like dressing or using utensils
• Trouble figuring out how to get on swings or slides, play with new toys, get dressed or make certain speech sounds
• Frequently trips, falls, bumps into things and drops toys
• Difficulty imitating simple movements with his hands, arms, legs or mouth
• Difficulty with changes in his routine or schedule
• May show separation anxiety / difficulty separating from caretaker

Treatment
Occupational therapists play a key role in the conventional treatment of SID. By providing sensory integration therapy, occupational therapists are able to supply the vital sensory input and experiences that children with SID need to grow and learn. Also referred to as a "sensory diet," this type of therapy involves a planned and scheduled activity program implemented by an occupational therapist, with each "diet" being designed and developed to meet the needs of the child's nervous system. A sensory diet stimulates the "near" senses (tactile, vestibular, and proprioceptive) with a combination of alerting, organizing, and calming techniques. Motor skills training methods that normally consist of adaptive physical education, movement education, and gymnastics are often used by occupational and physical therapists. While these are important skills to work on, the sensory integrative approach is vital to treating SID. The sensory integrative approach is guided by one important aspect-the child's motivation in selection of the activities.

By allowing them to be actively involved, and explore activities that provide sensory experiences most beneficial to them, children become more mature and efficient at organizing sensory information.

She's so SENSORY Part 2




Why is she wearing those headphones? Well, because there is research that shows that
theraputic "listening therapy" can help kids who have different "needs" -such as Keifer's needs with her attention and "need to control" things. (the hot pink tape is just special for helping keep the headphones on her head!)

I'll explain the pictures: 1) swinging helps my girl calm her system and find a place of "calmness". The rope 2)- works on her upper body strength, which in turn gives her core strength, which in turn, allows her to feel more confident and secure about her own body (because stronger = more grounded). 3) The mouth blower if for regulation. It has been proven that blowing (like bubbles or on special blowers or noisemakers) can WORK your lungs out, which in turn causes your system to WORK HARD and in turn, calm down. Make sense?
So yes, our girl received OT Sensory Integration for 1 full year. What finally prompted me to get help? One, I work(ed) with a fabulous OT through my school district who helped cue me into Keifer's needs- in a way that most people aren't even AWARE OF. Two, I was DONE with dealing with things like this:

Children with sensory processing disorder have difficulty with:
• Managing anxiety
• Handling high stress situations
• Dealing with frustration
• Staying on tasks to finishing point
• Effectively using fine and gross motor skills

Dealing with Keifer on a day to day level is hard. She wants your full -on attention all.the.time. I joke about how she has an "umbilical cord" attached to me - but the girl has stress and anxiety like she SHOULDN'T! We are a "safe" "happy" family, you know?

When comparing children’s sensory processing problems with coping abilities, the sensory processing problems were mostly related to the child’s difficulty with their ability to:
• Handle new situations
• Change plans / transition
• Appropriately learn new situations
• Understand independence and dependence
• Use self-defense successfully
• Have an proper activity level
• Control impulses

It came to light when things like this happen(ed): refusals to cut her nails (toes or fingers), refusals for me to even comb her hair, refusals for me to help her do things, her insisting that ,when we took the dogs for walks, we had to do the SAME LOOP every time. On that same loop of a walk, we had to go visit a certain child. If said child wasn't home, melt-downs ensued. There was always NEGOTIATION with her. We've never NOT been able to negotiate moving ahead with our day with Keifer in the house. It also happened at the library: we had our "routine" at the library- and if we didn't 1) push her in a stroller around the edges of the library or 2) let her push a cart, she would have full-on meltdowns. To the point that people would ask me if I needed help. Adding Kyla to the mix only raised MY anxiety with her, and I (to other people ) were told that I "looked" like I was handling it OK. Not inside!

I got the help for Keifer and within months, she was making progress. THe poor girl had a LOT of gravitational insecurity-which was hard to see until you tried to press her into climbing way high without her feet on the ground. I'm so proud to say that by the end she was able to climb like a monkey with no help within lycra "blankets" up high above the ground. I've also found rubbing her feet or rubbing lotion on her arms and legs helps calm her down. It's kind of cute- in a way- when I rub sunscreen on her, she says "rub harder, mommy!". She's now taken MY PLACE on the couch with her feet in her daddy's lap- I don't get my feet rubbed anymore! And- walking by an Asian massage place at the mall, she begged me for a back rub! LOL. I told her for her birthday, we'd get her a massage and she is SO excited to do that! This is the same reason she LOVES to get adjusted at the chiropractor- the pressure! She told the neighbor girl getting an adjustment is like "getting your body massaged!".


I often wondered, did she have another "disability", if you will? Like this:
Sensory processing disorder is often associated with other diagnoses such as:
• Pervasive developmental disorder/ autism spectrum
• Learning disabilities/ attention deficit disorder
• Language disorders
• Behavioral disorders
• Anxiety disorder/ depression

I've come to terms with, most likely, she has some sorts of anxiety and depression, and I think (!) some possibly ADHD or something. She cannot stop. We actually went to counseling last summer for the WHOLE summer plus some time in the Fall - to a fabulous, loving, amazing counselor about her anxieties. We also went because we can't get Keifer out of our bed. IT's turned into her not able to go to bed without me. Do this for over a year, and one will see breakdowns occur. However, after some time with our amazing therapist, it came to light that she is a smart, loving, VERY SOCIAL child and although at first, our therapist thought K1 had anxiety disorders- by the end, she thinks it's more behavioral with underlying issues. The thing with Keifer - you could bribe her or promise the moon to her- but she won't "give in" and promise to do anything unless she really believes she can. Books, bribes, etc. you name it, we've tried it. And I've given into the fact that we all sleep better if she's able to be with me right now. We have come a long way from her screaming outside the shower door as I shower at 6AM because she didn't want me to leave her alone in the bed.

And yes, we got her new bunk bed for her NEW BEDROOM in our new house, that she loves to show off. Daddy gets to enjoy that sleeping room!

So there you have it- so much more to say, but so little time. Let me know if you have any questions or comments, I'm always open and ready to talk! I've found this blog explains a lot of "techniques" that we use at home (and my work) for kids with SID.

This is an example of the lycra blankets that Keifer loved to crawl around in at therapy. Initially, she freaked out if her feet were off the ground - by the end, she was crawling around in there like it was no problem at all!





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