Throughout this infertility journey of three, long, agonizing years, I've met many wonderful woman online on support message boards, and many have become almost like sisters to me (well, Moosh my egg donor, for a good example). I met a girl who has been TTC since around the same time as CJ and I: Kirsten. Her blog is listed on my right. Well, poor Kir has not been successful yet, and we all really had hopes that this last IUI she had was the golden ticket for her and Mr. Kir. It wasn't, and needless to say, she was devastated, as were all of us who have been receiving HER endless support, while she watches as we have gotten our BFP's. I truly hurt over her BFN this week, and actually am tearing up writing this. She is one of the most generous, supportive, sweet, open, king, FUN, wonderful women I've met throughout this journey, and we've never even met or talked on the phone. Troughout my IVF, I received many supportive, FUNNY cards from her, and when I got my BFP she was one of my biggest cheerleaders. She even sent me a wonderful book, knowing how much I love to read: Chicken Soup for the Expectant Mother's Soul. What a true gem of a friend, huh? One day, though, Kir and I are meeting up at Sundance, and spending an entire weekend oogling celebrities and watching new movies. So please say a prayer of support for Kir, and please pray that her and Mr. Kir soon get what their hearts so desperately desire: a baby. Someway, somehow, she and Mr. Kir will be parents, but the journey getting there just plain ol' SUCKS THE BIG ONE.
Hugs and love to you, sweetie.
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3 comments:
I love Kir just as much as you... and wish and hope she'd get that BFP soon. :(
Oh Carrie, OMG, thank you. I am sitting here crying and laughing and crying. I don't even what to say to you, to devote a little piece of this blog to me/us. But thank you...and know that I love you, with all my heart. That my happiness is right there with you and your little soupbaby.
Carrie, you're a wonderful person and I don't have words for what you mean to me.
THANK YOU...with lots of love .
My heart is still breaking for her. She is and is always in my prayers.
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